Standards and Boundaries
Sit With You exists for clarity. These standards protect you, the Thought Barber, and the space.
What this is
A Sit is a paid, one hour clarity session in a real barbershop. No haircut.
- We help you name the real question.
- We lay out options and constraints.
- We eliminate what does not matter.
- We end with one decision and one next step.
The method is simple. The standard is high.
What this is not
- Not therapy, counseling, or medical care.
- Not coaching, consulting, or legal advice.
- Not crisis support.
- Not a place for harassment, threats, or intimidation.
If you need clinical care, we will encourage you to seek it.
How we run a Sit
We follow the CLEAR Cut Method. We keep the conversation moving.
We do not push outcomes. We protect your agency.
A Sit is one hour. If you want more, book another Sit.
We do not prescribe solutions. If you ask for advice, we will label it as opinion.
You should leave feeling clearer, not dependent.
Confidentiality
- We treat your Sit as private.
- We do not share your story publicly without explicit permission.
- We do not record sessions unless you opt in ahead of time.
Limits exist for safety. See the Safety section.
Safety
We will pause or end a Sit if safety is at risk.
- If you express intent to harm yourself or others.
- If you are impaired in a way that prevents a safe session.
- If you are seeking crisis intervention.
If you are in immediate danger, call local emergency services.
Conduct
- Respect the space, the staff, and the Thought Barber.
- No harassment, hate speech, or sexual content directed at anyone.
- No recording or photography without consent.
- No weapons or threats.
If conduct breaks these rules, the Sit ends immediately.
Payments and cancellations
- Payment is required to confirm an appointment.
- Reschedule rules follow the booking system policy shown at checkout.
- No shows may forfeit the session fee.
Keep this simple. If you cannot make it, reschedule early.
Referrals
If your situation needs a specialist, we will encourage a referral.
- Therapist or counselor for mental health treatment.
- Attorney for legal decisions.
- Financial professional for investments, taxes, or debt strategy.
- Medical professional for diagnosis or treatment.
We stay in our lane so your decision is clean.